is so hard to accept people as they are?: I think no ... just takes practice.
We tend to want to switch to another. Do you feel and think like us.
If you do, we feel happy and full ... we say: it is so like me!. But if not, we get angry ... cried ... insult and even kicked saying there can be with someone who does not like how I am.
used to think that if someone was not like me then you do not deserve my friendship and my love (for example). Was almost all the time judging others for being different and, frankly, suffers and argued a lot.
Buuut I realized that the story was not so, that each person is unique ... I stopped judging and started to accept.
not accept What are some behaviors like lying, hypocrisy, bad feelings ... destructive feelings.
I appreciate and respect people who are genuine. For those people who could care less and all what others think and keep their ideas and thoughts.
not particularly attempt to change the other person. First, because I do not like ... I find it funny, for example, those couples that "mutated" to resemble the other. I find this happens more a matter of power: "get them to change and think like me, then it is easier to handle yourself" ... I respect (each does what he wants or can), but not share. The issue of "drive-control" seems horrible, but I will not talk about it in this post.
And second, because if the other person intend to change according to my tastes would be who is then run the risk that, once you've changed, I do not like what I see or what has become, I get bored and I go. Eye, not that I do not like risks, but this is something else.
I can help change if someone asks me ... but more on the side to accompany this process in saying how.
Probably all this sounds complicated ... is that I am a little complicated ...
Finally, think carefully before you judge someone for not being like you or want to change it ... and remember:
"The similarities allowed us to approach but it is the differences that keep us together ... "
Good life and good week!.
Besitos!.
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