be happy ... no doubt be happy is a challenge. Today, with the pressures of work, study or family added to the stress typical of those who live in large cities the burden of having to deal sometimes with situations somewhat "frustrating" (to put it in some way) makes people forget to be happy or just can not. I can personally say I am a happy person. Obviously every day I have to experience some of the situations that I announced earlier, but I always return to the source. What is the source? ... My family, my love, my friends, my career, my values \u200b\u200b... things that really matter. always say we should watch and imitate children. They are happy and laugh with the things simple. From a hug to jump into a puddle of water left lluvia.Muchas Sometimes I like to be like them ... smile at the simplest thing. Those things that some people may seem silly to love me and make me happy ... a gesture, a word, hear the music I like to share with the people I love, drinking coffee or a mate with friends, plan a trip (though it hurts me nervous tummy ... are cute). I think the key to happiness is to want to be. Overcome problems and face them with courage. Thankful that we live and share with the people we want and we care. Trying to be optimistic (Although sometimes, of course, have bad days) and smile until it hurts your face and wrinkles ... we mark that matters!, Wrinkles are beautiful!. And if things in life we \u200b\u200bforget how to be happy, remember the things that made us happy children and put them into practice. Happiness is a gift enoooorme which, fortunately, is not just exclusive nor denied to anyone. Good life and good week!. Besitos!.
What we seek when we seek? Selfishness 
This afternoon, thinking I could write on the blog, was listening to radio. Changing from season to a resounding a "tangaso" sung by the great Julio Sosa: "One." Tango speaks almost impossible to search for true love after suffering heartbreak and a broken heart. Then came the question: what we seek when we seek love?.
Until recently I had completely identified with what the lyrics say, but life shows us that we always have a second chance and that "second party" may be better than good. During
I looked for a while that person to love me as I am and I understand. Without success "I went down the blind" and let life take its natural course. One day, not even imagine, I met this little person who for four months and 6 days illuminates my life. And, believe me, is better than all the "stereotypes" that my mind created. Just because he is, because no longer is and why he let it be who I am .... I want, I care for, protect me and to project a life with me. We spend much of our lives looking for happiness ... I think that is the essence of human beings and, often, when we look for is when she surprises us with the most beautiful gift: love. begins on this side of the world, spring ... in the old continent, the fall. The two most romantic seasons of the year (at least for me). I wish those who are still in pursuit, success!. And, I leave the question to repond: what they look for when searching for "that" anyone?. Good life and good start to the week. Besitos!. "You look hopeful the way that dreams promised our desires ... know that fighting is cruel and is much but fights and bleeds for the faith that drives you ... " (Extract from the Tango One sung by Julio Sosa).
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I searched the dictionary definition of the word selfishness and says excessive love of self that is detrimental to the other .
Personally I disagree. It sounds more to the definition of selfishness that in the dictionary, is defined as egoism exaggeration. So: what is being selfish?. The word in itself is taken as bad .... like something is wrong. But I ask, is wrong with being a little selfish?. The
usually ends bad ... I personally think that both extremes are bad, not at all selfish or be in excess. This post is fairly related to the above, the decisions. Because when we decided to do it for us, considering our "benefit" and then we think that our decision would benefit indirectly my surroundings, people around me. I want to be as clear as possible so you do not get me wrong. What I try to express (hopefully you understand) is that for me, Carolina, is not bad to be a little bit selfish. If you think what makes me good or not and make choices based to that makes my tittle of selfish, I will be ... do not know. writing this I recall the words of my mother when I chose to go live in Buenos Aires for three years, "you're a selfish, you do not think we're going to miss him." To which I replied, "If I were going to do well, if you will help me grow professionally and personally go, I'll be a selfish". Is it wrong? ... I think not. His comment was also selfish!. My point is we are all a little selfish. And to think a little bit as far as we do well we will be worse people. Obviously, without damaging others, not hurt himself ... knowing what the line between selfishness and egotism. not going to be less generous or human for being a little selfish, quite the contrary ... it helps us be more united, more noble and more generous. Hence, and from here, I say to someone today told me: "Your attitude is a little selfish" ... If it is true, as your attitude is selfish to be angry for not having written a mail! ... without thinking that I ran like crazy, I did (and do) a thousand things to get home and be with you!. So think how selfish it is to judge each before and accuse the other of being. I am, if ... a little bit, like everyone else. It is healthy to be. Good life and good start to the week!. Besitos!. Note: The picture has nothing to do with the post, but I found it beautiful and that's why I posted.
DECISIONS ... 
Life is a constant decision-making ... we've heard this a thousand times ... and it's true. From simple things like: "I wake or sleep a little more "or" go or no to that party, "to really important things like," what career I will follow "or" take this job or not "or" I'm going to live abroad "... to give some examples. ... The first are simple everyday things that do not affect us too much, or change the course of our lives. are the significant other, which affect us and make us rethink a lot of things. These are the decisions that move us and make us, inevitably, for life. Some people find it really hard to take that step ... the decision (or decisions) ... for others not so. I belong to the group that is not afraid to take risks. Since childhood I have taken important decisions. Decisions marked me and although not all were successful, I do not regret it. believe that if we know where we go, we want and we take care of what happens to us (in every situation) to make a fundamental decision is not so difficult. Obviously while analyzing the pros and cons, getting on the scale that we won and we lose, knowing that these decisions affect us not only to us ... is not a matter of jumping to Well!. And not to complain!. We (and only we) are responsible for what happens to us. If something we do not like or are unhappy, make necessary changes. But without complaint or regret. WE ARE THE OWNERS OF OUR OWN DESTINY. We write our own history, even if external factors that may modify it slightly. We are the ones responsible for changing what we do not like and decide what path leads us to be that person who long to be on that path and find happiness. My definition (too me) a word to decide is: played with soul, put all our being and our energies that we want. Although not leave us, though we stumble and even fall. More with the conviction that we do to improve, to find the way to the person we aspire to be ... While dreaming, without losing the sense of wonder and being as authentic as possible. So I decided I choose .... ... "But it happens also without knowing how or when, something you goose bumps and I rescued from the wreck ... " Good life and good start to the week!. Besitos!.
